Myths and Facts about Au Pair Childcare! - Westport Moms

Has writing your nanny’s schedule become more tedious than getting your children to brush their teeth? Do you curse under your breath when you are charged for being 5 minutes late to pick up your child from daycare due to traffic on I-95? Do you now need a weekday nanny as well as a weekend babysitter to cover your needs? If you can answer yes to any of these questions, please read on!
Selecting childcare can be a challenging task on which many parents spend hours researching available alternatives and seeking recommendations from family and friends. If flexibility around childcare sounds like a dream, then the au pair program is worth learning more about. Perhaps the most misunderstood form of childcare, the au pair program, is actually quite straightforward and provides the flexibility and affordability that many parents are looking for.
What is an au pair? The translation of “au pair” is “on par” or equal, based on the idea that an au pair becomes like a member of the family.  Au pairs are young adults, ranging in age from 18 to 26, that arrive in the United States on a J-1 Cultural Exchange Visa. They typically come for one year, but can extend their stay for up to two years. Au pairs hope to acquire a better understanding of the cultural aspects of American life while living with an American family and caring for their children.
There are many misconceptions associated with the au pair program! Read below to get a better sense of how the program really works.
Myth: Au pairs are for the rich and famous.
Fact: Au pairs are not just for the uber wealthy. The average monthly cost is just $1,579 for 45 hours of childcare coverage weekly regardless of the number of children in a family. Au pair host families come from all walks of life, with dual working parents and single parents, and have a wide range of occupations with both traditional and non-traditional work schedules.
Myth: Au pairs work 9-5 and don’t want to work nights and weekends.
Fact: Au pairs are carefully screened and understand that flexibility and working up to 45 hours per week and 10 hours per day is a requirement of the program.  Parents customize au pair childcare according to their schedule and, unlike a nanny or daycare center whose service is typically based on a set schedule, an au pair works when parents need them.
Myth: Au pairs only provide childcare.
Fact: Unlike daycare or a babysitter, an au pair can perform all household duties associated with children, so they can clean a playroom, prepare and clean up after meals, do children’s laundry, make the children’s beds and organize their toys and closets. In addition to childcare and help around the house, having an au pair also enriches a child’s playtime through exposure to another language and culture.
Myth: Anyone can be an au pair.
Fact: Actually, the au pair program is highly regulated by the Department of State and requires that all candidates have significant childcare experience and complete a thorough application. During the screening process, the potential candidate is personally interviewed, tested on English competency, takes a personality profile survey, submits a criminal background check and provides personal and professional references. At Cultural Care Au Pair, this screening is conducted by staff in their own overseas offices and not through the use of third-party agents.
Myth: Once an au pair arrives, parents are all alone in making it work.
Fact: Au pair programs like Cultural Care Au Pair provide ongoing personalized support throughout the year. Local childcare consultants maintain monthly contact with host families and provide a social outlet for the au pairs in the area by hosting monthly meetings. A member of the staff is available 24 hours per day, seven days a week and Cultural Care has an active on-line community that provides answers and advice from other host families, local consultants and veteran staff.
Myth: Not having a native speaker will affect a child’s language development.
Fact: Studies have shown that exposing children to a second language enhances their language and cognitive development and does not impede their ability to learn English.  With an au pair, parents can have a caregiver who speaks English and is also willing to teach their native language and share their culture with the family. Having an au pair can also reinforce a child’s language learning at school.
For more information on hosting an au pair, please call Local Childcare Consultant Jennifer Terra at (203.561.6583) or visit
About Cultural Care Au Pair
Cultural Care Au Pair is the leading provider of intercultural live-in childcare. Since 1989, Cultural Care Au Pair has placed more than 110,000 au pairs in welcoming American homes. A division of EF Education and a U.S. Department of State regulated program, Cultural Care Au Pair is headquartered in Cambridge, Mass., with an extensive network of recruitment, screening and orientation offices worldwide.
Jennifer Terra Halberg
Local Childcare Consultant
Cultural Care Au Pair
(203) 561-6583

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